101 Screts For Your Twenties: Love life
Published on April 12, 2019.
You can’t have a book called “101 Secrets For Your Twenties” without a single secret to help people on their love life. Paul Angone wrote a couple of chapters about dating and marriage and I will cover both on the same blog post.
Paul wrote
A date is a short period of time with another human being getting to know ech other’s story. Then you go home. Don’t make a date into something more than a date.
which is the first mistake of many people.
Later, Paul said
you can’t really define what you’re looking for in a guy or girl if you haven’t spent time getting to know them. Each date gives you a better understnding of the complexity of your taste.
And close to the end of the book, Paul advises about The One:
But wheter there is such a thing as The One is really not that important to me. What’s important is that you make a wise decision when deciding if this is the right one for you.
(…)
So instead of searching for this magical creature called The One, I propose we should be on the hunt for The Four—the four different relationships that need to be intertwined within the Right One.
The four different relationships are
- Best Friend
- Lover
- Business Partner
- Wartime Ally
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